Everyone wants to know what to do to support a person who is grieving. After the funeral is over, after we’ve dropped off a hot dish (that’s Midwest for "casserole") and sent a card... what do we do?
The answer is extremely complicated, so pay attention.
That’s it! That’s the whole secret. You do what you can. How you can. As often as you can. Without need for a thank you. Without expectation or ego.