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I Love Your Boundaries

I Love Your Boundaries

We all want our boundaries to be respected, and many of us fear that a boundary will break a relationship. If we don’t reply to that email, if we don’t follow that person back, if we don’t go to that wedding even though we can’t afford it... will we still be loved, appreciated, valued?

But How Do We Show Up Now?

But How Do We Show Up Now?

The truth is, we are scared because this is scary. The truth is, the future is unknowable to all of us. The truth is, a lot of us are doing the best we can with what we have.

It's Going To Be Okay

It's Going To Be Okay

These were the words Aaron said to me over and over and over again. And every time he said it, I nodded. And inside I screamed, “YOU LIAR!”